121320-"Love and Respect" - Ephesians 5:33. Ephesians 5:21 “Submitting to one another in the fear of Christ”. Relationships Notorious For Conflict: Husbands & Wives (5:22-33); Parents & Children (6:1-4); Management & Labor (6:5-9). Our Sermon In A Sentence: When Forming Opinions About The Role Of A Husband & Wife We Must Base Them Solely On God & His Word. The Marriage That Survives The “Crazy Cycle”: Husbands: Love Your Wife Unconditionally;;;Wives: Respect Your Husband Unconditionally. For Husbands, Submission Means:To Love His Wife Like Jesus Loved The Church,To Sanctify His Wife Like Jesus Does The Church,To Love His Wife Like His Own Body...For Wives, Submission Means:To Her Own Husband Only,To Make Jesus Her Primary Relationship,To Adjust To Her Husband’s Leadership. Ephesians 5:33 “To sum up, each one of you is to love his wife as himself, and the wife is to respect her husband.”